What better way to wrap 2014 at LifebyDamien.com than facing the fire and comparing myself to how I did on the 2014 Goals and Bucket list? Well – I’ll do that, AND set a new list of goals and bucket list items for 2015.
I think this is a great exercise for anyone who is trying to ensure they are on track for progression – and especially those who are looking for and/or are expecting change in the near future (1-3 years). I have heard more advice, and continued to develop myself through 2014 – which has shaped my goals and intentions as I carry forward in my professional, and personal lives.
First, how did I stack up to my 2014 goals, objectives and bucket list? In some ways: fantastic and in other ways: dismal. I completed 3 of my 5 goals. Of the 17 objectives I needed to hit in order to reach the 5 goals, I completed 11 of them. Oddly enough, completing all objectives for a given goal doesn’t mean the goal was obtained (note to self on better setting objectives). I also noted some goals, for which none of the objectives were obtained – lets me know what I put priority on. My largest defeat was only in completing 2 of 8 bucket list items.
I want to run through them briefly, before laying out goals and respective objectives for 2015, along with an exciting “bucket list”! For details, refer back to my earlier post HERE in 2013 in Review:
Goal: Begin my MBA at NYU: While I did study for my GMAT, take the GMAT, and obtain a desired score, I did not apply to NYU, or any other MBA program. That has been delayed, and I am not sure when I will pursue – but hopefully soon enough. I admit defeat here.
Goal: Meet face to face with my company’s CEO, Robert Benmosche: I met all of my objectives, but not the goal. I have made great progress in what I was working on, only the CEO changed and a new CEO stepped in. The work I have been doing has been discussed and recognized by the new CEO. I was also able to speak with him, just a few months before he took his role. So – I chalk that up to “close”, but this goal isn’t horseshoes or hand-grenades.
Goal: Travel Outside of the Continental U.S. I NAILED this one! Passport, work trip to Canada, and personal trip to the Dominican Republic – it was a great goal to fulfill!
Goal: Write, Produce, Record and Master a complete song. Fell behind here… I have not had as much time to enjoy my musical side. However, I have been having fun… and a fully completed song may not be too far from the future.
Goal: Buy a House : NAILED IT! A little off, as we looked at all sorts of options for buying. What came to reality was a weekend house in the Poconos. With recent developments and investments by larger developers in the area, and in selecting a home that is in the heart of multiple ski-lifts and Summer resorts, I think we made a great investment. Not to mention, The prices make it seem like a forced increase in retirement planning – but I can hang out here (I’m here in our Poconos House as I complete this article) as I contribute to my retirement, where as I can’t hang out in my Roth or 401k.
Goal: Begin Writing a Book: Okay, so I have begun writing… but still very loosely. I can’t say I have a full on, fully bought-into book and outline. I very occasionally write a passage to add to the book, and I still consider multiple book ideas to pursue. Just which am I currently pursuing? I’ll keep that one to myself for now.
Bucket List 2014: I was able to go Scuba Diving while in the Dominican Republic, and during the home buying process, we were able to enjoy a great family trip to the Poconos during the Summer. The rest of my bucket list was left behind. There were several attempts to go skydiving, but last minute scheduling conflicts made it difficult. Once winter kicked in, I knew it was off the table.
Okay, so now for 2015 Goals:
Goal: Record & Complete One Full Song
- I have neglected a lot of my down time, with an increased work schedule. I need to remember to keep some balance. Not to mention, I do believe growing musically will also sharpen my mind and allow me to think and trouble-shoot in new ways.
- Objective 1: Record a complete “Draft” of a song. This includes 3 verses, a chorus, and all original instrumentals (guitar, and digital Audio tools found in ProTools)
- Objective 2: Enlist the help, pro bono, of a musician and/or musical engineers to complete the song.
- Objective 3: Record, karaoke type songs to work on my own vocals.
Goal: Return to a Committed Philanthropic Role (with Transitioning Veterans)
- I really enjoyed working as a Mentor and Guest Instructor for the Fall 2013 FourBlock classes in New York. I would like to better manager my work schedule to allow me to do work with FourBlock once again.
- Objective 1: Plan work travel in advance, working around dates and times needed to be in NYC. I have previously only planned travel as I needed, and then schedule personal agenda items around work. I think there is a way to make both work more harmoniously.
Goal: Run the Spartan Trifecta 2015, Tough Mudder 2015 x2
- This last year I ran the Spartan Sprint (5 miles), and the Tough Mudder (11 miles). The longer I have been out of the military, the greater I appreciate the need to ACTIVELY seek and maintain physical fitness. My body fat percentage has increase, and my physical stamina and strength have decreased. So I guess the greater goal is to improve and maintain my physical fitness, and over all self-satisfaction. But the goal of complete one of each distance Spartan event, and this year running the Tough Mudder TWICE back-to-back will be measurable, and indicative of my work to stay in shape.
- Objective 1: Run a minimum of 6 miles per week.
- Objective 2: Go to the gym, or complete at least 1 strength training work out per week.
- Objective 3: Register for the races
- Objective 4: Don’t let scheduling be an excuse
Goal: Confirm Education and Professional Value Building Plan
- I have let work dictate my current actions, so much so that I have not allotted enough time/attention to the current time that should be allotted for an improved future. While I am not fully convinced that an MBA is exactly what I should be investing both time and money into – I know that I DO need to commit to some sort of professional development, and firmly commit to a career path. This year should have a pivot point or two in it, and on the far end of those pivots, I should have enough vision to make an informed decision, and a commitment to my future.
- Objective 1: To be honest – I think objective one is to speak to a career coach. I am not sure what steps to take, but perhaps a conversation or two with some professionals I have looked to as mentors will be helpful.
Goal: Get Promoted and/or apply to AND Take On an Advanced Role
- In the course of transitioning into the corporate world as a Military Veteran, I have completed the “step back and over” in order to take a step forward. Well… there is no time to get comfortable. Now, it is time to step forward. During the course of 2015 I will have been in my current position for 2 years. 2 years is my limit for staying stagnant without a move up. As I see it, I am not here to make moves at an average pace. I am trying to make up for a “late start” into the corporate world.
- Objective 1: Self-Educate on potential roles within my organization
- Objective 2: Communicate specific interest and my value proposition to the appropriate leaders in my organization
- Objective 3: Take on a more active role in additional roles requiring leadership and decision making to help validate my worthiness to take on a more senior role than I am in now.
2015 Bucket List:
- Go snowboarding at no less than 2 different resorts in the Poconos (Jack Frost and Camelback are in my sights).
- Attend 1 professional sports game/event
- Buy a small fishing boat (Jon Boat or Canoe/Kayak)
- Attend 1 political event (something sponsored by or hosted by a local politician, etc)
- Host a weekend retreat for friends in Poconos House
- Build my first piece of large wooden furniture (likely a dresser for my kids)
- Take an advanced Microsoft Excel Class (online or in person… but let’s be honest, likely will be online)
- Attend at least 2 BJJ classes – just to stay in touch with it… I miss training 4-5 days a week.
- Skydiving… maybe. I want to, but not sure I want to hold myself accountable to this one
Alright – that is all for now.
Big lessons from 2014’s goals – is that, for as many of the objectives/goals I did NOT hit, I would not have made nearly as many if I did not set them! I am happy to have done so, and reflecting on the goals I didn’t make, or seeing how goals changed is a great learning experience – for me, and hopefully for those of you reading.
Another great thing about my goals for 2014… in my efforts to obtain them, I found myself making residual gains or achieved/did things I didn’t plan for. While I didn’t get to a listed sporting eve, I did get to attend a professional soccer game at Red Bull Stadium, and went to the Eminem and Rhianna concert at MetLife Stadium. I have also made myself more aware of looking towards the future and not delaying the future because I’m too busy with today. I have been able to help many Veterans in their transitions just by happenstance even though I was not in an official role to do so – and I couldn’t be happier to do so!
2015 is about growing… as will 2016 and 2017. I look forward to another year of growth and enlightenment – and hopefully to be made aware of new goals to make for the years to come!
Happy New Year!